It has taken me a while but I have finally stopped convincing people (especially non readers), why I love to read. Can't it be enough that I prefer to delve into a brilliant mind of an author, their web of story telling taking me to places that I will never go in my lifetime?
The main reason why I'm writing this post is because for a long time now I've been getting negative feedback about my obsession with books, and of course they all come from people who don't read.
Here is a few of the things people say to me;
"We should burn all your books"
"It will be a great fire starter"
"It's not like you're going to read it again"
"Why don't you read something more educational"
"How can you read all the time"
and so on.....
I'm at a point now where I'm more upset than angry at these comments consistently thrown at me. I would never look at a non reader like they are stupid or don't have a life, so it would be nice if I got the same response back.
Reading for me is a passion, it makes me happy when I'm sad, it's a friend that never betrays me.
I read not only because I love to, but because I can.
Great post!
ReplyDeleteAnd cripes, some of those comments - very revealing in terms of an ignorance re: the power and joy of reading.
Thank you :)
DeleteYeah it's odd the way people react to things they don't like or understand, they just bring that person down.
At first I was constantly trying to prove or convince these people on why I read, but now I've come to the realisation that I don't care what they think, I read because it makes me happy.
Plus when they say comments like that I just reply by saying "Shove your comment where the sun don't shine". Yeah, I'm a classy lady hahahahahaha.
Yep, I know what you mean - so much easier to let them be, huh?
DeleteI used to have exactly the same kind of discussion re: music too, I stopped caring after a long time and just shrugged...now I just listen to whatever I like whenever :)
As my mum says, you can't teach an old dog new tricks.
DeleteI believe whatever makes you happy (unless it's illegal), then you cares about what other people think. In a way, when they make rude comments about something, it's usually because they are jealous lol.